Some people are so much you know; you meet them once and you wish it was for a life time, you dream about them and you wish not to wake up ;) . But it is unfortunate that it is not all people who are that nice and friendly. At times we wish to change our families because we think they just suck; we even lie about our associations and blood relatives because they are bloody. But have we paused and thought why we are not they are so?? They are just people, human beings like you. We, in most cases do not think that some people are not proud of us... news flash its a two way road, they may not like u either...
To associate with people should not be parasitic: benefit you only!!!!!! In most cases we encourage mutual associations: here both parties are both givers and beneficiaries of the relationship. Purposeful sacrificial relationships are also encouraged. Build a relationship in three simple steps.
A smile - it demands motivation, but hey, it does not cost a thing. A smiling face is a welcome notice to all. People may mistake you of being tender and sometimes easy just by showing the front teeth. Don't smile only when you want a vote or selling a product. A persistent smile is like a beautiful sweet smelling bloom; everyone loves to come close to it.
Selflessness - people are scared of you, yes all peoples are. I am so scared of the the 'me' people, I think you are too. Me, me, me, me, me..... Sounds familiar? Yes we all have an 'I' in us. Tell you the truth it stinks. Open room for other people to benefit. Selfishness is a scare to all people ( more especially to the very selfish :/ ). So open a little room to give, to embrace, to tolerate, to encourage... even if yo don't benefit.
Truth - from where I come from, Truth is a Man :) . But lets step a level lower to truth. It attracts the descent, the determined, the accomplished and most the truthful; but that is even primary ... truth feeds, sustains and keeps the relationships we make. It is like a magnificent magnet that never lets go... I cant deny the other beautiful fact; as a magnet truth attracts only magnetic substances.
........... #grace_corner
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